Choose to Change
I somehow keep giving the same advice yet really have yet to adhere to it myself, yes, I am a good teacher and a horrible student.
Here is my repeated advice:
~ We can't change people's behavior but we can change how they treat us by no longer allowing it~
What? Now that's crazy talk, we can change people, it's what we do when we start dating someone who isn't exactly what we want yet close enough, right? So we think but we all know the truth. The truth is, people only change when THEY WANT TO CHANGE!!! We are not in control of anyone but ourselves so, if you don't like something about someone, change you.
We cannot complain about someone if we allow them to continue to treat us poorly, if we allow them to hurt us, use us, control us. They won't change, only we can. So, in short, don't allow someone to ruin your life, allow yourself to walk away. Be in control of YOU, not someone else.
Here is my repeated advice:
~ We can't change people's behavior but we can change how they treat us by no longer allowing it~
What? Now that's crazy talk, we can change people, it's what we do when we start dating someone who isn't exactly what we want yet close enough, right? So we think but we all know the truth. The truth is, people only change when THEY WANT TO CHANGE!!! We are not in control of anyone but ourselves so, if you don't like something about someone, change you.
We cannot complain about someone if we allow them to continue to treat us poorly, if we allow them to hurt us, use us, control us. They won't change, only we can. So, in short, don't allow someone to ruin your life, allow yourself to walk away. Be in control of YOU, not someone else.
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